99% of guys won’t go out.
99% of guys who do go out won’t approach women.
You’ll know that males in America are starting to get real game when Internet posting about this topic goes down by at least 30%.
It’s easy to talk shit from behind a keyboard.
It’s easy to meet up and smoke cigarettes and talk shit about your glory days and how many 10s you pulled.
None of that shit matters, at all, unless you can approach.
When you hit the street it’s time to separate the men from the boys; the guys who are serious about game from the guys who just want male buddies.
Don’t get me wrong there’s nothing bad about the male bonding aspect of this game.
But some of us are also here to meet wonderful women.
There’s always a reason not to go out, not to approach.
“It’s Wednesday night nobody’s out tonight”
“XYZ bar is closed”
“I have to work early tomorrow”
“I’m gonna go out this weekend and go hard so I better save myself”
The brain the ego tricks you. I know all its tricks because its played them all on me.
“There’s no hot chicks out tonight”
“No point talking to her unless you’d sleep with her”
And on it goes. The guys who verbalize these excuses are not who I blame.
It’s the guys who say this shit, believe it, and act on it.
I’ve said to myself a thousand times “She’s with her boyfriend” or “She’s not hot enough”
And the only measure of me as a player is whether or not I go in right after that thought.
“Yup, she’s with her boyfriend. Let’s meet them.”
“Nope, she’s not my perfect 10. Let’s meet her.”
“Yup, it’s raining outside. Let’s meet them.”
“Yup, my balls itch. Time to talk to women”
This mental discipline is what separates men from boys
If you want to truly be a player in the game of life, get the fuck off the internet
and talk to women
or start your business
or pitch your clients
or ask for a raise
Give full voice to your bullshit excuses you have
And do it anyway
Any guy who shows up with stories of how hot shit he is and says “I’d be willing to teach” I can guarantee is fucking terrified
Any guy who shows up and says “I just want to learn as much as I can” and then says “Let’s go in” is a guy you can actually learn from
It’s the attitude that is worth emulating
Nobody’s gonna put you on.
Put yourself on
And if you’re really a player in the game you walk home, body aching because you did a hard interval cardio session today and you’re going in to the gym at 5am to do upper body the next morning and the morning after that and there’s no end in sight and you think game on playa